Friday, October 12, 2007

baby - Treating Colic - Calming Your Colicky Baby

Doctors haven't been able to pinpoint an exact treatment for colic, however there are ways to make life easier for both you and your colicky baby.

Following are tips for calming a colicky baby:

  • Check to see if your baby is hungry. Place your finger under your baby's chin. If your baby tries to suck or move toward it, then attempt a feeding. However, if your baby is not hungry, don't try to continue the feeding as it is a waste of time.
  • Try burping your baby more often during feedings.
  • Place your baby across your lap while belly-down and rub your baby's back. This will help get air out of his tummy and prevent gas.
  • Walk with your baby or sit in a rocking chair. The continuing movement is always soothing to a baby. Be sure to place your baby's head near your chest so your baby can hear your heartbeat.
  • Put your baby in a swing as this swaying motion may have a soothing effect.
  • Go for a ride. The vibration and movement of the car are often calming.
  • Do some laundry. Place your baby in a car seat and place the car seat on top of your washing machine or dryer. The movements and the sounds are very soothing.
  • Play music. For some babies, classical or slow music is calming.

Caring for a colicky baby is frustrating for both the baby and the parent, so be sure to take care of yourself as well as your baby. Try to relax, and remember that your baby will eventually outgrow this phase. If you need a break from your baby's crying, take one. Friends and relatives are often happy to watch your baby when you need some time to yourself. If no one is available, it's OK to put the baby down in the crib, let him cry and take a break before making another attempt. If the baby takes a nap, do the same.

Keep in mind that your baby will not remain colicky. Try these tips to calm your colicky baby.

Hilary Basile is a writer for http://www.myguidesusa.com At MyGuidesUSA.com, you will find valuable tips and resources for handling life's major events. Whether you're planning a wedding, buying your first home, anxiously awaiting the birth of a child, contending with a divorce, searching for a new job, or planning for your retirement, you'll find answers to your questions at MyGuidesUSA.com. Find parenting tips and resources at http://www.myguidesusa.com/becomingaparent

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baby - How Much Does a Baby Cost? Budgeting for Baby

A common question of couples planning on starting a family is, "How much does it cost to have a baby?" With the media reporting that children can cost hundreds of thousands to raise, cribs retailing at hundreds of dollars and health care expenses soaring, it's no wonder new parents are concerned. While there is no black and white answer on how much you are going to spend, the good news is that you can make child rearing as expensive or as inexpensive as you choose.

As with many things, babies come with fixed expenses and re-occurring expenses. The cost of fixed expenses, like baby gear and nursery d'cor, can easily be reduced down to a minimum.

Decorating a nursery can easily run you thousands of dollars if you buy all new furniture, rugs, curtains, wall decorations, closet organizers etc. However, with a little creativity, resourcefulness and thought, you can easily put together a dream nursery for a few hundred, or even less! Keep your eyes and ears open for hand-me-downs, scour online classified, auctions and make it a regular outing to go to weekend garage sales. Update a well used, but dirt cheap, changing table with a fresh coat of paint and some inexpensive storage baskets. If you can't find a used crib bumper that you love, ask your creative aunt or friend to sew you a custom bumper out of adorable fabric for a fraction of the cost of a new one. Take every opportunity to go to garage sales to find the cute little knick knacks that give a room personality.

Baby gear such as car seats, high chairs, stollers and bouncy chairs can also be found at bargains if you are willing to go with used. Make sure to check for safety recalls on everything you buy second hand.

If you have a good friend or relative who's planning on starting a family soon make a deal with them that you'll share baby gear. You can buy the bouncy chair if they buy the swing and you can let each other borrow them when you need them. Newborn gear is easy to share with others because the items only get used for a few months, hardly enough time to get dirty or wrecked.

The costs that you will need to budget for in your monthly budget are the re-occuring costs. Again, these can be as high or as low as you let them. The usual reoccurring baby costs are: formula/baby food, diapers, clothes, doctors visits, and toys.

Formula and disposable diapers can often be your largest expenses. As a guideline, assume that disposable diapers and wipes will cost you around $80 per month and formula $100 per month. However, both expenses can be virtually eliminated if you breastfeed and use cloth diapers. Breastfeeding is free and you can get a years supply of cloth diapers for less than $150.

When your baby is old enough to start on solids you can spend money on canned baby food or you can choose the most inexpensive option of making your own baby food purees. They are easy to make and taste so much better. The cost will only be an extra portion of fruit, vegetables and grains that you already buy.

Clothes and toys can be found second hand, church thrift stores are great places to look, or from generous family members at gift giving occasions. Luckily babies are so curious about the world around them that toys are easily found in everyday objects.

The web is full of free baby products, so take advantage! If you register at your favorite baby product websites you will soon start receiving generous coupons in the mail.

The bottom line is that babies can be raised on any kind of budget. What babies need more than monetary objects are love, attention, and affection, which are all free. You don't need a trust fund in place in order for you to afford to have a child, if you are emotionally ready to raise baby, then money shouldn't stop you.

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